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As filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission on January 15, 2008

Registration No. 333-            



UNITED STATES
SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION
WASHINGTON, DC 20549


FORM S-3

REGISTRATION STATEMENT
UNDER
THE SECURITIES ACT OF 1933

American Equity Investment Life Holding Company
(Exact name of registrant as specified in charter)

Iowa
(State or other jurisdiction of incorporation or organization)
  42-1447959
(I.R.S. Employer Identification Number)

5000 Westown Parkway, Suite 440
West Des Moines, Iowa 50266
(515) 221-0002
(Address, including zip code, and telephone number, including
area code, of Registrant's principal executive offices)

David J. Noble
Chairman,
Chief Executive Officer, President and Treasurer
5000 Westown Parkway, Suite 440
West Des Moines, Iowa 50266
(515) 221-0002
(Name, address, including zip code, and telephone number, including area code, of agent for service)

Copies to:

William R. Kunkel
Shilpi Gupta
Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom LLP
333 West Wacker Drive
Chicago, Illinois 60606
(312) 407-0700


           Approximate date of commencement of proposed sale to the public: From time to time after the effective date of this registration statement, as determined by market conditions and other factors.

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CALCULATION OF REGISTRATION FEE


Title of Securities to be Registered
  Amount to be Registered
  Proposed Maximum Offering Price Per Unit(2)
  Proposed
Maximum Aggregate
Offering Price(2)

  Amount of Registration Fee

Common Stock, par value $1   2,500,000 Shares(1)   $7.78   $19,450,000   $764.39(3)

Options to purchase common stock pursuant to the Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan(4)(5)   2,500,000 Options        

(1)
Shares issuable upon exercise of stock options authorized to be granted to independent insurance agents of American Equity Investment Life Insurance Company, a wholly owned subsidiary of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company, under the American Equity Investment Life Holding Company Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan.

(2)
Estimated solely for purposes of calculating registration fee.

(3)
Registration fee has been calculated pursuant to Rule 457(c) under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, based on the average of the high and low prices of the American Equity Investment Life Holding Company common stock on January 10, 2008, as reported on the New York Stock Exchange.

(4)
Stock options to be granted to independent insurance agents of American Equity Investment Life Insurance Company under the American Equity Investment Life Holding Company Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan.

(5)
Stock options are granted in the discretion of the Executive Committee of the Board of Directors of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company to independent insurance agents who are significant producers for our wholly owned operating subsidiary, American Equity Investment Life Insurance Company.

           The registrant hereby amends this registration statement on such date or dates as may be necessary to delay its effective date until the registrant shall file a further amendment which specifically states that this registration statement shall thereafter become effective in accordance with Section 8(a) of the Securities Act of 1933 or until the registration statement shall become effective on such date as the Commission, acting pursuant to said Section 8(a), may determine.




The information in this prospectus is not complete and may be changed. A registration statement relating to these securities has been filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission. These securities may not be sold nor may offers to buy be accepted prior to the time the registration statement becomes effective. This prospectus is not an offer to sell these securities and is not soliciting an offer to buy these securities in any state where the offer or sale is not permitted.

SUBJECT TO COMPLETION, DATED JANUARY 15, 2008

PROSPECTUS

American Equity
Investment Life Holding Company


2,500,000 SHARES OF COMMON STOCK
ISSUABLE UPON EXERCISE OF STOCK OPTIONS
AND THE ISSUANCE OF THE RELATED STOCK OPTIONS

under the

INDEPENDENT INSURANCE AGENT STOCK OPTION PLAN


        This prospectus relates to the 2,500,000 shares of our common stock, $1 par value per share, that may be issued upon the exercise of stock options granted under our Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan (the "Plan") to independent insurance agents who are significant producers for our wholly owned operating subsidiary, American Equity Investment Life Insurance Company. This prospectus also relates to the options that may be granted under the Plan to purchase those 2,500,000 shares.

        The exercise price for these shares of common stock will be determined at the time of grant of the related option, but will be no less than one hundred percent (100%) of the fair market value of the common stock at the time of grant. Our common stock is listed on the New York Stock Exchange under the symbol "AEL." On January 10, 2008, the closing price of our common stock as reported on the NYSE was $7.87.

        Exercising options and purchasing our common stock involve risks that are described in the "Risk Factors" section beginning on page 1 of this prospectus.

         Neither the Securities and Exchange Commission, any state securities commission, the Iowa Commissioner of Insurance nor any other regulatory body has approved or disapproved of these securities or determined if this prospectus is truthful or complete. Any representation to the contrary is a criminal offense.

The date of this prospectus is                        , 2008.


TABLE OF CONTENTS

 
  Page
AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING COMPANY   1
RISK FACTORS   1
FORWARD-LOOKING STATEMENTS   3
DESCRIPTION OF THE PLAN   5
USE OF PROCEEDS   8
LEGAL MATTERS   8
EXPERTS   8
WHERE YOU CAN FIND MORE INFORMATION   9

        You should rely only on the information contained in this prospectus and the information to which we have referred you. We have not authorized anyone to provide you with information that is different. This prospectus may only be used where it is legal to sell these securities. The information in this prospectus may only be accurate on the date of this document. Our business, financial condition, results of operations or prospects may have changed since that date.

        All references to "we," "us," "our" or "American Equity" in this prospectus are to American Equity Investment Life Holding Company.

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AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING COMPANY

Our Business

        We are a full service underwriter of a broad array of annuity and insurance products through our two life insurance subsidiaries, American Equity Investment Life Insurance Company ("American Equity Life") and American Equity Investment Life Insurance Company of New York. Our business consists primarily of the sale of index and fixed rate annuities and, accordingly, we have only one business segment. Our business strategy is to focus on our annuity business and earn predictable returns by managing investment spreads and investment risk. We are currently licensed to sell our products in 50 states and the District of Columbia.

        Our executive offices are located at 5000 Westown Parkway, Suite 440, West Des Moines, IA 50266, and our telephone number is (515) 221-0002. Our web site address is www.american-equity.com . Information contained on our website is not incorporated by reference in and does not constitute a part of this prospectus.

Recent Developments

        We received a formal request for information from the Securities and Exchange Commission (the "SEC") concerning our acquisition of American Equity Investment Service Company. The SEC has advised us that the request should not be construed as an adverse reflection on American Equity or any other person, nor should it be interpreted as an indication that American Equity or any other person has violated any law. We intend to cooperate with the SEC's investigation.


RISK FACTORS

Our ability to meet our payment obligations is dependent upon distributions from our subsidiaries, but our subsidiaries' ability to make distributions is limited by law and several contractual agreements.

        We are a holding company and our principal assets are the shares of the capital stock and surplus notes of our life insurance subsidiaries. As a holding company without independent means of generating operating revenues, we depend on investment advisory fees, dividends, interest on surplus notes and other payments from our life insurance subsidiaries to fund our obligations and meet our cash needs, including to pay dividends on our common stock.

        We have a $150 million revolving line of credit agreement with eight banks. The transfer of funds by American Equity Life is restricted by certain covenants in our line of credit facility which, among other things, requires American Equity Life to maintain a minimum risk-based capital ratio of 200%. Under the most restrictive of these limitations, $99.2 million of our earned surplus at September 30, 2007 was available for distribution by American Equity Life to us in the form of dividends or other distributions. As of December 31, 2007, there was $5 million outstanding under the revolving line of credit. In the future, we may incur additional indebtedness under the line of credit facility, among other reasons, to implement our share repurchase plan.

        The payment of dividends or distributions, including surplus note payments, by our life insurance subsidiaries is subject to regulation by each subsidiary's state of domicile's insurance department. Our life insurance subsidiaries are domiciled in Iowa and New York. Currently, our life insurance subsidiaries may pay dividends or make other distributions without the prior approval of their state of domicile's insurance department, unless such payments, together with all other such payments within the preceding twelve months, exceed, in Iowa, the greater of, and in New York, the lesser of (1) the life insurance subsidiary's net gain from operations for the preceding calendar year or (2) 10% of the life insurance subsidiary's statutory surplus at the preceding December 31. In addition, dividends and surplus note payments may be made only out of earned surplus, and all surplus note payments are

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subject to prior approval by regulatory authorities. American Equity Life had $182.0 million of statutory earned surplus at September 30, 2007.

        The maximum distribution permitted by law or contract is not necessarily indicative of an insurer's actual ability to pay such distributions, which may be constrained by business and regulatory considerations, such as the impact of such distributions on surplus, which could affect the insurer's ratings or competitive position, the amount of premiums that can be written and the ability to pay future dividends or make other distributions. Further, state insurance laws and regulations require that the statutory surplus of our life subsidiaries following any dividend or distribution must be reasonable in relation to their outstanding liabilities and adequate for their financial needs.

        Although we believe our current sources of funds provide adequate cash flow to us to meet our current and reasonably foreseeable future obligations, there can be no assurance that we will continue to have access to these sources in the future.

The price of our common stock may fluctuate significantly, and this may make it difficult for you to resell the shares of our common stock when you want or at prices you find attractive.

        The price of our common stock on the New York Stock Exchange constantly changes. We expect that the market price of our common stock will continue to fluctuate.

        The market price of our common stock may fluctuate in response to numerous factors, many of which are beyond our control. These factors include the following:

        In addition, the stock markets from time to time experience extreme price and volume fluctuations that may be unrelated or disproportionate to the operating performance of companies. These broad fluctuations may adversely affect the trading price of our common stock, regardless of our actual operating performance.

Future sales of our common stock or equity-related securities in the public market, including sales of our common stock in short sales transactions, could adversely affect the trading price of our common stock and our ability to raise funds in new stock offerings.

        Sales of significant amounts of our common stock or equity-related securities in the public market, or the perception that such sales will occur, could adversely affect prevailing trading prices of our common stock and could impair our ability to raise capital through future offerings of equity or equity-related securities. No prediction can be made as to the effect, if any, that future sales of shares of our common stock or the availability of shares of our common stock for future sale, including sales of our common stock in short sales transactions, will have on the trading price of our common stock.

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Anti-takeover provisions affecting us could make it difficult for a third party to acquire our company.

        Our articles of incorporation, as amended, our second amended and restated bylaws and Iowa law contain anti-takeover provisions that could have the effect of delaying or preventing changes in control of our company or our management. These provisions could also discourage proxy contests and make it more difficult for our stockholders to elect directors and take other corporate actions without the concurrence of our management or board of directors. The provisions in our charter documents include the following:

        We are subject to certain Iowa laws that could have similar effects. One of these laws, Section 490.1110 of the Iowa Business Corporation Act, prohibits us from engaging in a business combination with any interested shareholder for a period of three years from the date the person became an interested shareholder unless certain conditions are met.

        The foregoing provisions may discourage transactions that otherwise could provide for the payment of a premium over prevailing market prices of our common stock and also could limit the price that investors are willing to pay in the future for shares of our common stock.


FORWARD-LOOKING STATEMENTS

        This prospectus (including the information incorporated by reference) contains forward-looking statements within the meaning of Section 27A of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, and Section 21E of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended. All statements, trend analyses and other information contained in this prospectus and elsewhere (such as in filings by us with the Securities and Exchange Commission, press releases, presentations by us or our management or oral statements) relative to markets for our products and trends in our operations or financial results, as well as other statements including words such as "anticipate," "believe," "plan," "estimate," "expect," "intend" and other similar expressions, constitute forward-looking statements. We caution that these statements may and often do vary from actual results and the differences between these statements and actual results can be material. Accordingly, we cannot assure you that actual results will not differ materially from those expressed or implied by the forward-looking statements.

        Factors that could contribute to these differences include, among other things:

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        You should not place undue reliance on any forward-looking statements. Forward-looking information is intended to reflect opinions as of the date of this prospectus. Except as otherwise required by applicable laws, we undertake no obligation to publicly update or revise any forward-looking statements described in this prospectus, whether as a result of new information, future events, changed circumstances or any other reason after the date of this prospectus.

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DESCRIPTION OF THE PLAN

         The following is a description in question and answer form of the Plan, but is qualified in its entirety by the terms of the Plan. In the event of any conflict between the terms of the Plan and this description, the terms of the Plan will prevail.

What is the purpose of the Plan?

        The Plan is intended to assist us and our wholly owned operating subsidiary, American Equity Life, in attracting and retaining certain independent insurance agents of outstanding ability and to promote the identification of their interests with those of our stockholders.

When did the Plan become effective?

        The Plan became effective on January 1, 2007.

Who is eligible to receive an option under the Plan?

        Options to purchase shares of our common stock may be granted to those independent insurance agents (1) who have been validly appointed by American Equity Life as sales agents for its products in applicable jurisdictions, (2) who have valid and existing agent's contracts with American Equity Life in effect and that have not terminated prior to any grant of options under the Plan and (3) who meet the requirements established by the executive committee of American Equity's board of directors (the "Executive Committee") from time to time, including without limitation, rules regarding sales production criteria.

Who administers the Plan?

        The Plan is administered by the Executive Committee, which has full authority, subject to the provisions of the Plan, to determine: (i) which agents will be granted options; (ii) the terms (which terms need not be identical) of all options including, the time or times at which options are granted, the option exercise price, the number of shares of our common stock subject to an option, any provisions relating to vesting (provided that if no vesting period is specified by the Executive Committee, then the applicable options will vest six months after the date of grant), any circumstances in which options terminate or in which we may repurchase shares of our common stock and the period during which options may be exercised; and (iii) any other terms, conditions or restrictions on options. Subject to the provisions of the Plan, the Executive Committee has full authority to construe and interpret the Plan and any agreements entered into under the Plan, and to make all other determinations deemed necessary or advisable for the administration of the Plan, including, but not limited to, any determination to accelerate the vesting or exercisability of outstanding options.

        Further, in addition to such other rights of indemnification that members of the Executive Committee may have as directors or as members of the Executive Committee, the members of the Executive Committee will be indemnified by us against the reasonable expenses, including attorneys' fees, actually and reasonably incurred in connection with the defense of any action, suit or proceeding, or in connection with any appeal therein, to which they or any of them may be a party by reason of any action taken or failure to act under or in connection with the Plan, any related agreement or any option granted under the Plan, and against all amounts reasonably paid by them in settlement thereof or relating to a judgment, action, suit or proceeding, if such members acted in good faith and in a manner which they believed to be in, and not opposed to, our best interests.

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How many shares of our common stock are reserved for issuance under the Plan?

        The maximum number of shares of our common stock that may be issued under the Plan is 2,500,000, subject to adjustment in certain circumstances, as described below. If an option expires or terminates for any reason without having been fully exercised, the unissued shares of our common stock that had been subject to that option will again become available for the grant of options under the Plan.

How will the option exercise price be determined?

        The option exercise price will be determined by the Executive Committee and will be set forth in a written agreement executed by us and the agent to whom an option has been granted. No option will have a per share exercise price that is less than the fair market value of a share of our common stock as of the date the option is granted.

May the option exercise price be reduced?

        No. Specifically, no option will be issued in exchange for or as a reissuance of any outstanding option and the option exercise price for any outstanding option will not be changed, if the effect of such exchange or change would be to reduce the option exercise price for any outstanding option, except as necessary to reflect the effect of certain changes in corporate structure or capitalization or a change in control, as described below.

When can an option be exercised?

        The period in which an option may be exercised will be determined by the Executive Committee and specifically set forth in the written agreement with the agent, provided that an option may not be exercisable for a period longer than 10 years from the date the option is granted.

What happens if there is a stock split or stock dividend?

        In the event of any change in our outstanding common stock by reason of any stock dividend, splitup (or reverse stock split), recapitalization, reclassification, reorganization, reincorporation, combination or exchange of shares, merger, consolidation, liquidation or similar change in corporate structure, the Executive Committee will, in its discretion and to the extent necessary to compensate for the effect of such transaction or change, provide for an equitable substitution for or adjustment in (i) the number and class of shares subject to outstanding options; (ii) the price of outstanding options; and (iii) the aggregate number and class of shares that may be issued under the Plan.

How may the option price be paid?

        Payment of the option exercise price shall be made in cash. The Executive Committee may provide in a written agreement with the agent that part or all of such payment may be made by the optionee (i) by delivery to us of shares of our common stock valued at fair market value on the date the option is exercised or (ii) by delivery of an exercise notice and irrevocable instructions to a registered securities broker approved by the Executive Committee to sell shares and deliver cash to us.

Who else may exercise an option?

        Options are not transferable other than by will or the laws of descent and distribution. An option may be exercised during the optionee's lifetime only by the optionee or, in the event of his or her legal disability, by his or her legal representative. In the event of the death of the optionee, his or her options may be exercised by the optionee's designated beneficiary.

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When do options terminate?

        All options terminate at the end of the term established by the written agreement with the agent which may be no longer than ten years from date the option is granted.

        Generally, if the status of a holder of an option as an agent is terminated for any reason, the option will expire upon such termination and will thereby be forfeited. However, in the case of the death or disability of an optionee the vesting of the optionee's outstanding options shall accelerate, and/or any other restrictions on exercise shall be removed. The option will expire unless exercised within one year after the date of death or the cessation of service of the optionee by reason of the disability.

What happens upon a change in control of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company?

        If there is a change of control of our company, as defined in the Plan, the vesting of all outstanding options may accelerate, and/or any other restrictions on exercise may be removed following delivery of a written election of such acceleration by the optionee.

Is the status of an individual holding an option affected?

        No. The granting of an option to an agent does not confer any right to continue as an agent of American Equity Life or interfere in any way with the right of American Equity Life to terminate its relationship with the agent.

Does a holder of an option have any rights as a shareholder?

        No.

When does the Plan terminate?

        Unless sooner terminated by our board of directors, the Plan will terminate on January 1, 2010, and no options may be granted after that date. However, the termination of the Plan will not affect the validity of any option outstanding on the date of termination.

Who is responsible for taxes or other withholding obligations with respect to the options?

        Any and all taxes and other withholding obligations payable in connection with or relating to the grant or exercise of an option, and/or the sale of any shares of our common stock by an optionee, will be the sole responsibility of the optionee.

What tax considerations affect options?

        Set forth below is a discussion of certain federal tax consequences with respect to options. This discussion is based on an analysis of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended, the Code, as currently in effect, existing laws, judicial decisions, administrative rulings and regulations, and proposed regulations, all of which are subject to change. In addition to being subject to the federal tax consequences described below, an optionee may also be subject to foreign, state, and local income or other tax consequences in the jurisdiction in which he works and/or resides. EACH OPTIONEE IS URGED TO CONSULT HIS OR HER PERSONAL TAX ADVISOR TO DETERMINE THE SPECIFIC TAX CONSEQUENCES TO HIM OR HER OF THE PLAN (OR ANY COMPONENT THEREOF), INCLUDING THE INCOME TAX CONSEQUENCES OF HOLDING AND EXERCISING AN OPTION AND SELLING THE SHARES ACQUIRED UPON EXERCISE OF THE OPTION.

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        To ensure compliance with Treasury Department Circular 230, the optionees are notified that: (i) any discussion of federal tax issues in this document is not intended or written to be relied upon, and cannot be relied upon by the optionee for the purpose of avoiding penalties that may be imposed on the optionee under the Code, and (ii) such discussion is written as part of this disclosure, which is being used by us in connection with the promotion or marketing (within the meaning of Circular 230) of the transactions or matters addressed herein.

        Options granted under the Plan are non-qualified options under the Code. The grant of non-qualified stock options will not result in the recognition of taxable income for federal income tax purposes. However, when a nonqualified option is exercised, an optionee recognizes, as ordinary income, the excess of the fair market value of the stock on the date of exercise over the exercise price. We are entitled to an income tax deduction to the same extent and at the same time as income is recognized by the optionee. The shares acquired upon exercise of the option will have a basis equal to their fair market value, and the holding period will commence on the day after the stock is received.

Are there any other considerations relating to ERISA or a Tax-Qualified Plan?

        The Plan is not qualified under Section 401(a) of the Code and is not subject to any provisions of the Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974 (referred to as "ERISA").

Are there any other considerations regarding the resale of shares issued?

        Shares of our common stock acquired upon exercise or otherwise relating to an option pursuant to the Plan may be sold publicly. However, shares owned by persons who may be deemed to be our "affiliates" as defined in the rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission under the Securities Act of 1933 may not be re-offered or resold except pursuant to another exemption from registration under the Securities Act of 1933.


USE OF PROCEEDS

        We intend to use the net proceeds from the sale of the offered securities for general corporate purposes.


LEGAL MATTERS

        Certain legal matters regarding the securities will be passed upon for us by Wendy L. Carlson, our General Counsel. Ms. Carlson is a full-time employee and officer of our company, and she is currently the beneficial owner of 255,625 shares of our common stock which includes options to purchase 157,500 shares of our common stock.


EXPERTS

        Our consolidated financial statements as of December 31, 2006 and 2005, and for the years ended December 31, 2006 and 2005, and all related financial statement schedules, and management's assessment of the effectiveness of internal control over financial reporting as of December 31, 2006 have been incorporated by reference herein in reliance upon the reports of KPMG LLP, independent registered public accounting firm, which reports are incorporated herein by reference, and upon the authority of said firm as experts in accounting and auditing. The audit report covering the December 31, 2006 consolidated financial statements refers to our adoption of Securities and Exchange Commission Staff Accounting Bulletin No. 108, Considering the Effects of Prior Year Misstatements when Quantifying Misstatements in the Current Year Financial Statements , in 2006.

        Our consolidated financial statements for the year ended December 31, 2004 appearing in our Annual Report (Form 10-K) for the year ended December 31, 2006 (including schedules appearing

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therein) have been audited by Ernst & Young LLP, independent registered public accounting firm, as set forth in their report thereon (which contains an explanatory paragraph describing a change in our method of accounting for a variable interest entity during the first quarter of 2005, retroactive to January 1, 2003), included therein, and incorporated herein by reference. Such consolidated financial statements are incorporated herein by reference in reliance upon such report given on the authority of such firm as experts in accounting and auditing.


WHERE YOU CAN FIND MORE INFORMATION

        We file annual, quarterly and current reports, proxy statements and other information with the SEC. The SEC allows us to incorporate by reference the information we file with them, which means that we can disclose important business and financial information to you that is not included in or delivered with this prospectus by referring you to publicly filed documents that contain the omitted information.

        You may read and copy the information that we incorporate by reference in this prospectus as well as other reports, proxy statements and other information that we file with the SEC at the public reference facility maintained by the SEC at 100 F Street, N.E., Washington, D.C. 20549. Please call the SEC at 1-800-SEC-0330 for further information on the operation of the public reference room. In addition, we are required to file electronic versions of those materials with the SEC through the SEC's EDGAR system. The SEC maintains a web site at http://www.sec.gov that contains reports, proxy statements and other information that registrants, such as us, file electronically with the SEC. You may also request a copy of these filings, at no cost, by writing or telephoning us as follows: Shareholder Relations, American Equity Investment Life Holding Company, 5000 Westown Parkway, Suite 440, West Des Moines, Iowa 50266, Attention Shareholder Relations, (515) 221-0002. These reports, proxy statements and other information may also be inspected at the New York Stock Exchange, 20 Broad Street, New York, New York 10005.

        You should rely only on the information contained or incorporated by reference in this prospectus. We have not authorized anyone to provide you with different information. If anyone provides you with different or inconsistent information, you should not rely on it. You should not assume that the information contained in this prospectus is accurate as of any date other than the date such information is presented, or, with respect to information incorporated by reference from reports or documents filed with the SEC, as of the date such report or document was filed. We are not making an offer to sell these securities in any jurisdiction where the offer or sale is not permitted.

        We have filed with the SEC a registration statement on Form S-3 under the Securities Act covering the securities described in this prospectus. This prospectus does not contain all of the information included in the registration statement, some of which is contained in exhibits included with or incorporated by reference into the registration statement. The registration statement, including the exhibits contained or incorporated by reference therein, can be read at the SEC's website or at the SEC offices referred to above. Any statement made in this prospectus concerning the contents of any contract, agreement or other document is only a summary of the actual contract, agreement or other document. If we have filed or incorporated by reference any contract, agreement or other document as an exhibit to the registration statement, you should read the exhibit for a more complete understanding of the document or matter involved. Each statement regarding a contract, agreement or other document is qualified in its entirety by reference to the actual document.

        Rather than include certain information in this prospectus that we have already included in documents filed with the SEC, we are incorporating this information by reference, which means that we are disclosing important information to you by referring to those publicly filed documents that contain

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the information. The information incorporated by reference is considered to be part of this prospectus. Accordingly, we incorporate by reference the following documents filed with the SEC by us:

        We also incorporate by reference any future filings (other than information furnished under Item 2.02 or 7.01 of any Current Report on Form 8-K) we make with the SEC pursuant to Sections 13(a), 13(c), 14 or 15(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 (1) after the date of the filing of this registration statement and before its effectiveness and (2) until all of the securities to which this prospectus relates are sold or the offering is otherwise terminated. Our subsequent filings with the SEC will automatically update and supersede information in this prospectus.

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PART II

INFORMATION NOT REQUIRED IN PROSPECTUS

Item 14. Other Expenses Of Issuance And Distribution

        The following table sets forth the costs and expenses payable by American Equity Investment Life Holding Company in connection with the offer and sale of the securities being registered. All amounts are estimates except the SEC registration fee.

SEC Registration Fee   $ 764.39
NYSE Listing Fees     12,000
Legal Fees and Expenses     40,000
Accounting Fees and Expenses     15,000
Miscellaneous     15,000
   
Total   $ 82,764.39
   

Item 15. Indemnification of Directors and Officers

        Section 490.202 of the Iowa Business Corporation Act, or the IBCA, provides that a corporation's articles of incorporation may contain a provision eliminating or limiting the personal liability of a director to the corporation or its shareholders for monetary damages for any action taken, or failure to take action, as a director, provided that the provision does not eliminate or limit the liability of a director for the amount of a financial benefit received by a director to which the director is not entitled; an intentional infliction of harm on the corporation or its shareholders; violation of Section 490.833; or an intentional violation of criminal law. Further, Section 490.851 of the IBCA provides that a corporation may indemnify its directors party to a proceeding against liability incurred in the proceeding by reason of such person serving in the capacity of director, if such person has acted in good faith and in a manner reasonably believed by the individual to be in the best interests of the corporation, if the director was acting in an official capacity, and in all other cases that the individual's conduct was at least not opposed to the best interests of the corporation, and in any criminal proceeding if such person had no reasonable cause to believe the individual's conduct was unlawful or the director engaged in conduct for which broader indemnification has been made permissible or obligatory under a provision of the articles of incorporation.

        The indemnity provisions under Section 490.851 do not apply (i) in the case of actions brought by or in the right of the corporation except for reasonable expenses incurred in connection with the proceeding if it is determined that the director has met the relevant standard of conduct under Subsection 1 of Section 490.851; or (ii) in connection with any proceedings with respect to conduct for which the director was adjudged liable on the basis that the director received a financial benefit to which the director was not entitled, whether or not involving action in the director's official capacity. In addition, Section 490.852 of the IBCA provides mandatory indemnification of reasonable expenses incurred by a director who is wholly successful in defending any action in which the director was a party because the director is or was a director of the corporation. A director who is a party to a proceeding because the person is a director may also apply for court-ordered indemnification and advance of expenses under Section 490.854.

        Section 490.853 of the IBCA provides that a corporation may, before final disposition of a proceeding, advance funds to pay for or reimburse the reasonable expenses incurred by a director who is a party to a proceeding because he is a director if the director delivers the following to the corporation: (1) a written affirmation that the director has met the standard of conduct described above or that the proceeding involved conduct for which liability has been eliminated under the corporation's articles of incorporation; and (2) the director's written undertaking to repay any funds

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advanced if the director is not entitled to mandatory indemnification under Section 490.852 of the IBCA and it is ultimately determined that the director has not met the standard of conduct described above.

        Under Section 490.856 of the IBCA, a corporation may indemnify and advance expenses to an officer of the corporation who is a party to a proceeding because he is an officer to the same extent as a director. In addition, if the person is an officer but not a director, further indemnification may be provided by the corporation's articles of incorporation, the bylaws, a resolution of the board of directors or contract, except for liability in connection with (1) a proceeding by or in the right of the corporation other than for reasonable expenses incurred in connection with the proceeding; and (2) conduct that constitutes receipt by the officer of a financial benefit to which the officer is not entitled, an intentional infliction of harm on the corporation or the shareholders, or an intentional violation of criminal law. Such indemnification is also available to an officer who is also a director if the basis on which the officer is made a party to a proceeding is an act or omission solely as an officer.

        Our amended articles of incorporation provide that our directors will not be liable to us or our shareholders for money damages for any action taken, or any failure to take any action, as a director, except liability for (1) the amount of a financial benefit received by a director to which the director is not entitled; (2) intentional infliction of harm on us or our shareholders; (3) a violation of Section 490.833 of the IBCA, which relates to liability for unlawful distributions; and (4) an intentional violation of criminal law.

        Our amended articles of incorporation also provide that each of our current and former directors who was or is made a party to, or is involved in any threatened, pending or completed action, suit or proceeding, whether civil, criminal, administrative or investigative, by reason of the fact that such person is or was a director of the company or is or was serving at our request as a director, officer, partner, trustee, employee or agent of another corporation, partnership, joint venture, trust, employee benefit plan or other enterprise shall be indemnified and held harmless by us to the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, except liability for (1) a financial benefit received by a director to which the director is not entitled; (2) an intentional infliction of harm on us or our shareholders; (3) an unlawful distribution to shareholders; and (4) an intentional violation of criminal law. In addition to such indemnification, any such director and any officer are entitled to have any expenses reasonably incurred in defending any such proceeding or any similar proceeding against any officer in advance of its final disposition paid directly by us to the fullest extent permitted by applicable law.

        Our bylaws also provide indemnification to our directors on the same terms as the indemnification provided in our articles of incorporation. Our bylaws also provide for advances of expenses to our directors and officers on the same terms as provided in our articles of incorporation. The indemnification provisions of our bylaws are not exclusive of any other right which any person seeking indemnification may have or acquire under any statute, our articles of incorporation or any agreement, vote of stockholders or disinterested directors or otherwise.

        Section 490.857 of the IBCA provides that a corporation may purchase and maintain insurance on behalf of a person who is a director or officer of a corporation, or who, while a director or officer of a corporation, serves at the corporation's request as a director, officer, partner, trustee, employee or agent of another corporation, partnership, joint venture, trust, employee benefit plan, or other entity, against liability asserted against or incurred by that person in that capacity or arising from that person's status as a director or officer, whether or not the corporation would have the power to indemnify or advance expenses to that person against the same liability under the IBCA. As permitted by and in accordance with Section 490.857 of the IBCA, we maintain insurance coverage for our officers and directors as well as insurance coverage to reimburse us for potential costs for indemnification of directors and officers.

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Item 16. Exhibits

Exhibit
Number

  Description
3.1   Articles of Incorporation, including Articles of Amendment (Incorporated by reference to the Registration Statement on Form 10 dated April 29, 1999 and Post-Effective Amendment No. 1 to the Registration Statement on Form 10 dated July 20, 1999 and Incorporated by reference to Form 10-Q for the period ended June 30, 2000).

3.2

 

Articles of Amendment to Articles of Incorporation filed on September 23, 2003 (Incorporated by reference to the Registration Statement on Form S-1 dated September 15, 2003, including all pre-effective amendments thereto).

3.3

 

Articles of Amendment to Articles of Incorporation filed on July 6, 2006.

3.4

 

Second Amended and Restated Bylaws.

5.1

 

Opinion of Wendy L. Carlson, General Counsel of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company.

10.1

 

American Equity Investment Life Holding Company Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan (incorporated by reference to the Form 10-Q for the period ended September 30, 2007).

23.1

 

Consent of KPMG LLP.

23.2

 

Consent of Ernst &Young LLP.

23.3

 

Consent of Wendy L. Carlson (included in Exhibit 5.1).

24.1

 

Powers of Attorney of certain officers and directors (included on the signature page of the registration statement).

Item 17. Undertakings

(A)    The undersigned registrant hereby undertakes:

    (1)
    To file, during any period in which offers or sales are being made, a post-effective amendment to this registration statement:

    (i)
    To include any prospectus required by Section 10(a)(3) of the Securities Act of 1933;

    (ii)
    To reflect in the prospectus any facts or events arising after the effective date of the registration statement (or the most recent post-effective amendment thereof) which, individually or in the aggregate, represent a fundamental change in the information set forth in this registration statement. Notwithstanding the foregoing, any increase or decrease in volume of securities offered (if the total dollar value of securities offered would not exceed that which was registered) and any deviation from the low or high end of the estimated maximum offering range may be reflected in the form of prospectus filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission pursuant to Rule 424(b) if, in the aggregate, the changes in volume and price represent no more than 20 percent change in the maximum aggregate offering price set forth in the "Calculation of Registration Fee" table in the effective registration statement;

    (iii)
    To include any material information with respect to the plan of distribution not previously disclosed in the registration statement or any material change to such information in the registration statement.

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    provided, however , that the undertakings set forth in paragraphs (1)(i), (1)(ii) and (1)(iii) above do not apply if the information required to be included in a post-effective amendment by those paragraphs is contained in reports filed with or furnished to the Securities and Exchange Commission by the registrant pursuant to section 13 or section 15(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended, that are incorporated by reference in the registration statement, or is contained in a form of prospectus filed pursuant to Rule 424(b) that is part of the registration statement.

    (2)
    That, for the purpose of determining any liability under the Securities Act of 1933, each such post-effective amendment shall be deemed to be a new registration statement relating to the securities offered therein, and the offering of such securities at that time shall be deemed to be the initial bona fide offering thereof.

    (3)
    To remove from registration by means of a post-effective amendment any of the securities being registered which remain unsold at the termination of the offering.

(B)    The undersigned registrant hereby undertakes that, for purpose of determining liability under the Securities Act of 1933, each filing of American Equity's annual report pursuant to section 13(a) or section 15(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 that is incorporated by reference in the registration statement shall be deemed to be a new registration statement relating to the securities offered therein, and the offering of such securities at that time shall be deemed to be the initial bona fide offering thereof.

(C)    That, for the purpose of determining liability of the registrant under the Securities Act of 1933 to any purchaser in the initial distribution of the securities:

    The undersigned registrant undertakes that in a primary offering of securities of the undersigned registrant pursuant to this registration statement, regardless of the underwriting method used to sell the securities to the purchaser, if the securities are offered or sold to such purchaser by means of any of the following communications, the undersigned registrant will be a seller to the purchaser and will be considered to offer or sell such securities to such purchaser:

    (1)
    Any preliminary prospectus or prospectus of the undersigned registrant relating to the offering required to be filed pursuant to Rule 424;

    (2)
    Any free writing prospectus relating to the offering prepared by or on behalf of the undersigned registrant or used or referred to by the undersigned registrant;

    (3)
    The portion of any other free writing prospectus relating to the offering containing material information about the undersigned registrant or its securities provided by or on behalf of the undersigned registrant; and

    (4)
    Any other communication that is an offer in the offering made by the undersigned registrant to the purchaser.

(D)    Insofar as indemnification for liabilities arising under the Securities Act of 1933 may be permitted to directors, officers and controlling persons of the registrant pursuant to the foregoing provisions described in Item 15 above, or otherwise, the registrant has been advised that in the opinion of the Securities and Exchange Commission such indemnification is against public policy as expressed in the Securities Act and is, therefore, unenforceable. In the event that a claim for indemnification against such liabilities (other than the payment by the registrant of expenses incurred or paid by a director, officer or controlling person of the registrant in the successful defense of any action, suit or proceeding) is asserted by such director, officer or controlling person in connection with the securities being registered, the registrant will, unless in the opinion of its counsel the matter has been settled by controlling precedent, submit to a court of appropriate jurisdiction the question whether such indemnification by it is against public policy as expressed in the Securities Act and will be governed by the final adjudication of such issue.

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SIGNATURES

        Pursuant to the requirements of the Securities Act of 1933, the registrant certifies that it has reasonable grounds to believe that it meets all of the requirements for filing on Form S-3 and has duly caused this registration statement to be signed on its behalf by the undersigned, thereunto duly authorized, in the City of West Des Moines, State of Iowa, on January 15, 2008.


 

 

AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE
HOLDING COMPANY

 

 

By:

 

/s/  
DAVID J. NOBLE       
    Name:   David J. Noble
    Title:   Chairman of the Board and President

POWER OF ATTORNEY

        KNOW ALL MEN BY THESE PRESENTS, that each person whose signature appears below constitutes and appoints David J. Noble and Wendy L. Carlson, jointly and severally, as his true and lawful attorney-in-fact and agent, acting alone, with full power of substitution and resubstitution, for him and in his name, place and stead, in any and all capacities, to sign (i) any and all amendments (including post-effective amendments) to this registration statement and (ii) any registration statement of the type contemplated by Rule 462(b) under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, and to file the same, with all exhibits thereto and all other documents in connection therewith, with the Securities and Exchange Commission, granting unto said attorneys-in-fact full power and authority to do and perform each and every act and thing requisite or necessary to be done, as fully and for all intents and purposes as he or she might or could do in person, hereby ratifying and confirming all that said attorneys-in-fact and agent, or his or her substitute or substitutes, may lawfully do or cause to be done by virtue hereof.

        Pursuant to the requirements of the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, this registration statement has been signed by the following persons in their capacities on January 15, 2008.

Signature
  Title

 

 

 
/s/   DAVID J. NOBLE       
David J. Noble
  Chairman of the Board and President
(Principal Executive Officer)

/s/  
WENDY L. CARLSON       
Wendy L. Carlson

 

Chief Financial Officer and General
Counsel (Principal Financial Officer)

/s/  
TED M. JOHNSON       
Ted M. Johnson

 

Vice President—Accounting
(Principal Accounting Officer)

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/s/  
JAMES M. GERLACH       
James M. Gerlach

 

Director

/s/  
ROBERT L. HILTON       
Robert L. Hilton

 

Director

/s/  
ROBERT L. HOWE       
Robert L. Howe

 

Director

/s/  
JOHN M. MATOVINA       
John M. Matovina

 

Director

/s/  
A. J. STRICKLAND III       
A. J. Strickland III

 

Director

/s/  
HARLEY A. WHITFIELD       
Harley A. Whitfield

 

Director

/s/  
KEVIN R. WINGERT       
Kevin R. Wingert

 

Director

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EXHIBIT INDEX

Exhibit
Number

  Description
3.1   Articles of Incorporation, including Articles of Amendment (Incorporated by reference to the Registration Statement on Form 10 dated April 29, 1999 and Post-Effective Amendment No. 1 to the Registration Statement on Form 10 dated July 20, 1999 and Incorporated by reference to Form 10-Q for the period ended June 30, 2000).

3.2

 

Articles of Amendment to Articles of Incorporation filed on September 23, 2003 (Incorporated by reference to the Registration Statement on Form S-1 dated September 15, 2003, including all pre-effective amendments thereto).

3.3

 

Articles of Amendment to Articles of Incorporation filed on July 6, 2006.

3.4

 

Second Amended and Restated Bylaws.

5.1

 

Opinion of Wendy L. Carlson, General Counsel of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company.

10.1

 

American Equity Investment Life Holding Company Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan (incorporated by reference to the Form 10-Q for the period ended September 30, 2007).

23.1

 

Consent of KPMG LLP.

23.2

 

Consent of Ernst & Young LLP.

23.3

 

Consent of Wendy L. Carlson (included in Exhibit 5.1).

24.1

 

Powers of Attorney of certain officers and directors (included on the signature page of the registration statement).

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Exhibit 3.3

ARTICLES OF AMENDMENT
TO
THE ARTICLES OF INCORPORATION
OF
AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING COMPANY

TO THE SECRETARY OF STATE OF THE STATE OF IOWA:

        Pursuant to Section 490.602 of the Iowa Business Corporation Act, the undersigned corporation adopts the following amendment to the Corporation's Articles of Incorporation.

        1.     The name of the corporation is AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING COMPANY.

        2.     The Articles of Incorporation of AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING COMPANY are hereby amended by deleting in its entirety the first sentence of Article IV, which now states:

—Deletion—

and inserting in lieu thereof the following:

—Insertion—

        3.     The date of adoption of the amendment was June 8, 2006.

        4.     The amendment was approved by the shareholders. The designation, number of outstanding shares, number of votes entitled to be cast by each voting group entitled to vote separately on the amendment, and the number of votes of each voting group indisputably represented at the meeting is as follows:

Designation of Group
  Shares
Outstanding

  Votes Entitled
to be Cast on
Amendment

  Votes Represented
at Meeting

Common   55,658,655   55,658,655   49,172,235
Preferred (nonvoting)   -0-   -0-   -0-

A. The total number of votes cast for and against the amendment by each voting group entitled to vote separately on the amendment is as follows:

Voting Group
  Votes For
  Votes Against
  Abstaining
Common   44,001,706   5,031,802   138,727
Preferred   N/A   N/A   N/A

        The number of votes cast for the amendment by each voting group was sufficient for approval by that voting group.

        Dated this       th day of July, 2006.

    AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING COMPANY

 

 

By:

/s/  
WENDY L. CARLSON       
Wendy L. Carlson
Chief Financial Officer and General Counsel

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Exhibit 3.4

SECOND AMENDED AND RESTATED BYLAWS

OF

AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT
LIFE HOLDING COMPANY
(an Iowa Corporation)

(hereinafter referred to as "Corporation")

ARTICLE 1

PRINCIPAL OFFICE

        The principal office of the Corporation is at the location identified in the most recent annual report filed by the Corporation with the Iowa Secretary of State or such other location as may be designated by the Board of Directors.

ARTICLE 2

MEETINGS OF SHAREHOLDERS

        Section 2.1 Annual Meeting.     The annual meeting of the shareholders for the election of directors and for the transaction of such other business as may properly come before the meeting, shall be held at such place, time and date as shall be designated from time to time by the board of directors.

        Section 2.2 Special Meetings.     Special meetings of the shareholders, for any purpose or purposes, shall be called in accordance with the Iowa Business Corporation Act.

        Notice of (i) the place, date and time of all meetings of shareholders; (ii) the initial authorization or issuance, subsequent to the next preceding shareholders' meeting, of shares for promissory notes or promises to render services in the future; (iii) any indemnification of a director required by law to be reported to shareholders; and, (iv) in the case of a special meeting, the purpose or purposes for which the meeting is called, shall be given not less than ten (10) days nor more than sixty (60) days before the date of the meeting to each shareholder entitled to vote at such meeting and to such other shareholders as are required by law to be given such notice. The board of directors may establish a record date for the determination of shareholders entitled to notice, as provided in Section 5.9 of these bylaws. Notice of adjourned meetings need only be given if required by law or Section 2.14 of these bylaws.

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        Section 2.5 Voting List.     After fixing a record date for a meeting, the Secretary shall prepare an alphabetical list of the names of all shareholders who are entitled to notice of the shareholders' meeting. The list must be arranged by voting group and within each voting group by class or series of shares, and show the address of and number of shares held by each shareholder. The shareholders' list must be available for inspection by any shareholder beginning two business days after notice of the meeting is given for which the list was prepared and continuing through the meeting, at the Corporation's principal office or at a place identified in the meeting notice in the city where the meeting will be held. A shareholder, or a shareholder's agent or attorney, is entitled on written demand to inspect and, subject to the requirements of law, to copy the list, during regular business hours and at the person's expense, during the period it is available for inspection. The Corporation shall make the shareholders' list available at the meeting, and any shareholder, or a shareholder's agent or attorney, is entitled to inspect the list at any time during the meeting or any adjournment.

        Section 2.6 Quorum.     Unless otherwise required by law, the holders of a majority of the capital stock issued and outstanding and entitled to vote thereat, present in person or represented by proxy, shall constitute a quorum at all meetings of the shareholders for the transaction of business. A quorum, once established, shall not be broken by the withdrawal of enough votes to leave less than a quorum. If, however, such quorum shall not be present or represented at any meeting of the shareholders, the shareholders entitled to vote thereat, present in person or represented by proxy, shall have power to adjourn the meeting from time to time, in the manner provided in Section 2.14, until a quorum shall be present or represented.

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        Section 2.10 Inspectors.     The board of directors in advance of any meeting of shareholders may (but shall not be obliged to) appoint inspectors to act at such meeting or any adjournment thereof. If inspectors are not so appointed, the officer or person acting as chairperson of any such meeting, and on the request of any shareholder or his proxy, shall make such appointment. In case any person appointed as inspector shall fail to appear or act, the vacancy may be filled by appointment made by the board of directors in advance of the meeting, or at the meeting by the officer or person acting as chairperson. The inspectors shall register proxies, determine the number of shares outstanding, the voting power of each, the shares represented at the meeting, the existence of a quorum, the authenticity, validity and effect of proxies, receive votes, ballots, assents or consents, hear and determine all challenges and questions in any way arising in connection with the vote, count and tabulate all votes, assents and consents, determine and announce the result, and do such acts as may appear proper to conduct the election or vote with fairness to all shareholders. The maximum number of such inspectors appointed shall be three, and no inspector whether appointed by the board of directors or by the officer or person acting as chairperson need be a shareholder.

        Section 2.11 Consent of Shareholders in Lieu of Meeting.     Any action required or permitted by law to be taken at a meeting of the shareholders, may be taken without a meeting if a consent in writing setting forth the action so taken shall be signed by the holders of outstanding shares having not less than ninety percent of the votes entitled to be cast at a meeting at which all shares entitled to vote on the action were present and voted, and are delivered to the Corporation for inclusion in the minutes.

        Section 2.12 Conduct of Business.     The chairperson of any meeting of shareholders shall determine the order of business and procedure at the meeting, including such regulation of the manner of voting and the conduct of business as seem to him or her to be in order.

        Section 2.13 Nature of Business at Meetings of Shareholders.     No business may be transacted at an annual meeting of shareholders, other than business that is either (a) specified in the notice of meeting (or any supplement thereto) given by or at the direction of the board of directors (or any duly authorized committee thereof), (b) otherwise properly brought before the annual meeting by or at the direction of the board of directors (or any duly authorized committee thereof) or (c) otherwise properly brought before the annual meeting by any shareholder of the Corporation (i) who is a shareholder of record on the date of the giving of the notice provided for in this Section 2.13 and on the record date for the determination of shareholders entitled to vote at such annual meeting and (ii) who complies with the notice procedures set forth in this Section 2.13.

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        In addition to any other applicable requirements, for business to be properly brought before an annual meeting by a shareholder, such shareholder must have given timely notice thereof in proper written form to the Secretary of the Corporation.

        To be timely, a shareholder's notice to the Secretary must be delivered to or mailed and received at the principal executive offices of the Corporation not less than sixty (60) days nor more than ninety (90) days prior to the anniversary date of the immediately preceding annual meeting of shareholders; provided, however, that in the event that the annual meeting is called for a date that is not within thirty (30) days before or after such anniversary date, notice by the shareholder in order to be timely must be so received not later than the close of business on the tenth (10th) day following the day on which notice of the date of the annual meeting was mailed or public announcement of the date of the annual meeting was made, whichever first occurs. In no event shall the public announcement of an adjournment of an annual meeting commence a new time period for the giving of a shareholder's notice as described above.

        To be in proper written form, a shareholder's notice to the Secretary must set forth as to each matter such shareholder proposes to bring before the annual meeting (i) a brief description of the business desired to be brought before the annual meeting and the reasons for conducting such business at the annual meeting, (ii) the name and record address of such shareholder, (iii) the class or series and number of shares of capital stock of the Corporation which are owned beneficially or of record by such shareholder, (iv) a description of all arrangements or understandings between such shareholder and any other person or persons (including their names) in connection with the proposal of such business by such shareholder and any material interest of such shareholder in such business and (v) a representation that such shareholder intends to appear in person or by proxy at the annual meeting to bring such business before the meeting.

        No business shall be conducted at the annual meeting of shareholders except business brought before the annual meeting in accordance with the procedures set forth in this Section 2.13, provided , however , that, once business has been properly brought before the annual meeting in accordance with such procedures, nothing in this Section 2.13 shall be deemed to preclude discussion by any shareholder of any such business. If the presiding officer of an annual meeting determines that business was not properly brought before the annual meeting in accordance with the foregoing procedures, the presiding officer shall declare to the meeting that the business was not properly brought before the meeting and such business shall not be transacted.

        For purposes of this Section 2.13, "public announcement" shall mean an announcement in a press release reported by the Dow Jones News Service, Associated Press or comparable national news service or in a document publicly filed by the Corporation with the Securities and Exchange Commission pursuant to Section 13, 14 or 15(d) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended (the "Exchange Act").

         Section 2.14 Adjourned Meetings. A meeting of shareholders may be adjourned to another time and to another place by either the chairperson of the meeting or a majority of the votes present. When a meeting is adjourned to another place, date or time, notice need not be given of the adjourned meeting if the place, date and time thereof are announced at the meeting at which the adjournment is taken; provided, however, that if the date of any adjourned meeting is more than one hundred twenty (120) days after the date for which the meeting was originally noticed, or if a new record date is fixed for the adjourned meeting, notice of the place, date and time of the adjourned meeting shall be given in conformity herewith. At any adjourned meeting, any business may be transacted which might have been transacted at the original meeting.

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ARTICLE 3

BOARD OF DIRECTORS

        Section 3.1 Number of Directors.     The number of directors shall be such number as the board of directors shall at the time have designated.

        Section 3.2 Qualifications and General Powers.     No director is required to be an officer or employee of the Corporation or a resident of the State of Iowa. The business and affairs of the Corporation shall be managed by the board of directors. The board of directors may authorize any officer or officers, agent or agents, to enter into any contract or to execute and deliver any instrument in the name and on behalf of the Corporation, and such authority may be general or confined to specific instances.

        Section 3.3 Nomination of Directors.     Only persons who are nominated in accordance with the following procedures shall be eligible for election as directors of the Corporation. Nominations of persons for election to the board of directors may be made at any annual meeting of shareholders, or at any special meeting of shareholders called for the purpose of electing directors, (a) by or at the direction of the board of directors (or any duly authorized committee thereof) or (b) by any shareholder of the Corporation (i) who is a shareholder of record on the date of the giving of the notice provided for in this Section 3.3 and on the record date for the determination of shareholders entitled to vote at such meeting and (ii) who complies with the notice procedures set forth in this Section 3.3.

        In addition to any other applicable requirements, for a nomination to be made by a shareholder, such shareholder must have given timely notice thereof in proper written form to the Secretary of the Corporation.

        To be timely, a shareholder's notice to the Secretary must be delivered to or mailed and received at the registered office of the Corporation (a) in the case of an annual meeting, not less than sixty (60) days nor more than ninety (90) days prior to the anniversary date of the immediately preceding annual meeting of shareholders; provided, however, that in the event that the annual meeting is called for a date that is not within thirty (30) days before or after such anniversary date, notice by the shareholder in order to be timely must be so received not later than the close of business on the tenth (10th) day following the day on which notice of the date of the annual meeting was mailed or public announcement of the date of the annual meeting was made, whichever first occurs; and (b) in the case of a special meeting of shareholders called for the purpose of electing directors, not later than the close of business on the tenth (10th) day following the day on which notice of the date of the special meeting was mailed or public announcement of the date of the special meeting was made, whichever first occurs. In no event shall the public announcement of an adjournment of an annual or special meeting commence a new time period for the giving of a shareholder's notice as described above.

        To be in proper written form, a shareholder's notice to the Secretary must set forth (a) as to each person whom the shareholder proposes to nominate for election as a director (i) the name, age, business address and residence address of the person, (ii) the principal occupation or employment of the person, (iii) the class or series and number of shares of capital stock of the Corporation which are owned beneficially or of record by the person and (iv) any other information relating to the person that would be required to be disclosed in a proxy statement or other filings required to be made in connection with solicitations of proxies for election of directors pursuant to Section 14 of the Exchange Act, and the rules and regulations promulgated thereunder; and (b) as to the shareholder giving the notice (i) the name and record address of such shareholder, (ii) the class or series and number of shares of capital stock of the Corporation which are owned beneficially or of record by such shareholder, (iii) a description of all arrangements or understandings between such shareholder and each proposed nominee and any other person or persons (including their names) pursuant to which the

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nomination(s) are to be made by such shareholder, (iv) a representation that such shareholder intends to appear in person or by proxy at the meeting to nominate the persons named in its notice and (v) any other information relating to such shareholder that would be required to be disclosed in a proxy statement or other filings required to be made in connection with solicitations of proxies for election of directors pursuant to Section 14 of the Exchange Act and the rules and regulations promulgated thereunder. Such notice must be accompanied by a written consent of each proposed nominee to being named as a nominee and to serve as a director if elected.

        No person shall be eligible for election as a director of the Corporation unless nominated in accordance with the procedures set forth in this Section 3.3. If the presiding officer of the meeting determines that a nomination was not made in accordance with the foregoing procedures, the presiding officer shall declare to the meeting that the nomination was defective and such defective nomination shall be disregarded.

        For purposes of this Section 3.3, "public announcement" shall mean an announcement in a press release reported by the Dow Jones News Service, Associated Press or comparable national news service or in a document publicly filed by the Corporation with the Securities and Exchange Commission pursuant to Section 13, 14 or 15(d) of the Exchange Act.

        Section 3.4 Increase in Number of Directors; Tenure.     In case the number of directors be increased by thirty percent or less of the number of directors last approved by the shareholders, by amendment to these bylaws by the board of directors or by resolution of the board of directors, the directorships to be filled by reason thereof may be filled by the affirmative vote of a majority of the directors, though less than a quorum of the board of directors.

         Section 3.5 Quorum and Manner of Acting. A majority of the number of directors then holding office shall constitute a quorum for the transaction of business; but if at any meeting of the board there be less than a quorum present, a majority of the directors present may adjourn the meeting from time to time until a quorum shall be present Notice of any adjourned meeting need not be given. At all meetings of directors, a quorum being present, the act of the majority of the directors present at the meeting shall be the act of the board of directors.

        Section 3.6 Resignation.     Any director of the Corporation may resign at any time by giving written notice to the board of directors, its chairperson or the Corporation. The resignation of any director shall take effect upon delivery of notice thereof or at such later date as shall be specified in such notice; and, unless otherwise specified therein, the acceptance of such resignation shall not be necessary to make it effective.

        Section 3.7 Vacancies.     Any vacancy occurring in the board of directors through death, resignation, removal or any other cause may be filled by the affirmative vote of a majority of the remaining directors, though less than a quorum of the board of directors. A director elected to fill a vacancy, other than a newly created directorship, shall hold office for the unexpired term of his predecessor.

        Section 3.8 Compensation of Directors.     The directors shall be entitled to be reimbursed for any expenses paid by them on account of attendance at any regular or special meeting of the board of directors and the board may fix the compensation of directors from time to time by resolution of the board.

        Section 3.9 Place of Meetings, etc.     The board of directors may hold its meetings and keep the books and records of the Corporation (except that the record of its shareholders must also be kept at the places described in Section 3.5 of these bylaws) at such place or places within or without the State of Iowa, as the board may from time to time determine. A director may participate in any meeting by any means of communication, including, but not limited to telephone conference call, by which all directors participating may simultaneously hear each other during the meeting.

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        Section 3.10 Annual Meeting.     Immediately after the final adjournment of each annual meeting of the shareholders for the election of directors, the board of directors shall meet, at the same place where said meeting of shareholders finally adjourned, for the purpose of organization, the election of officers and the transaction of other business. Notice of such meeting need not be given. Such meeting may be held at any other time or place as shall be specified in a notice given as hereinafter provided for special meetings of the board of directors or in a consent and waiver of notice thereof signed by all the directors, at which meeting the same matters shall be acted upon as is above provided.

        Section 3.11 Regular Meetings.     Regular meetings of the board of directors shall be held at such place and at such times as the board of directors shall by resolution fix and determine from time to time. No notice shall be required for any such regular meeting of the board.

         Section 3.13 Substitutes for Notice. A written waiver of notice signed by a director, whether before or after the time of the meeting stated therein, shall be equivalent to the giving of such notice in due time as required by these bylaws. Attendance of a director at or participation in a meeting shall constitute a waiver of notice of such meeting, unless the director at the beginning of the meeting or promptly upon arrival objects to holding the meeting or transacting business at the meeting and does not thereafter vote for or assent to action taken at the meeting.

         Section 3.14 Director's Assent Presumed. A director of the Corporation who is present at a meeting of its board of directors at which action on any corporate matter is taken shall be presumed to have assented to the action taken unless the director's dissent shall be entered in the minutes of the meeting or unless the director shall file a written dissent to such action with the person acting as the Secretary of the meeting before the adjournment thereof or shall forward such dissent by registered or certified mail to the Secretary of the Corporation immediately after the adjournment of the meeting. Such right to dissent shall not apply to a director who voted in favor of such action.

        Section 3.16 Action Without Meeting.     Any action required or permitted by law to be taken at any meeting of the board of directors may be taken without a meeting if the action is taken by all members of the board and if one or more consents in writing setting forth the action so taken shall be signed by all of the directors then in office and included in the minutes.

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ARTICLE 4

OFFICERS

        Section 4.1 Generally.     The officers of the Corporation shall be a President, one or more Vice Presidents (the number thereof to be determined by the board of directors), a Secretary, a Treasurer and such other officers as may from time to time be appointed by the board of directors. One person may hold the offices and perform the duties of any two or more of said offices. In its discretion, the board of directors may delegate the powers or duties of any officer to any other officer or agents, notwithstanding any provision of these bylaws, and the board of directors may leave unfilled for any such period as it may fix, any office except those of President, Treasurer and Secretary. The officers of the Corporation shall be appointed annually by the board of directors at the annual meeting thereof. Each such officer shall hold office until the next succeeding annual meeting of the board of directors and until his successor shall have been duly chosen and shall qualify or until his death or until he shall resign or shall have been removed.

        Section 4.2 Removal.     Any officer may be removed by the board of directors, with or without cause, but such removal shall be without prejudice to the contract rights, if any, of the person so removed.

        Section 4.3 Powers and Duties of the President.     The President shall be the chief executive officer of the Corporation. Subject to the provisions of these bylaws and to the direction of the board of directors, he or she shall have the responsibility for the general management and control of the business and affairs of the Corporation and shall perform all duties and have all powers which are commonly incident to the office of chief executive or which are delegated to him or her by the board of directors. He or she shall have power to sign all stock certificates, contracts and other instruments of the Corporation which are authorized and shall have general supervision and direction of all of the other officers, employees and agents of the Corporation.

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        Section 4.4 Powers and Duties of the Vice President(s).     In the absence of the President or in the event of the death, inability or refusal to act of the President, the Vice President (or in the event there be more than one Vice President, the Vice Presidents in the order designated at the time of their election, or in the absence of any designation, the senior Vice President in length of service) shall perform the duties of the President, and when so acting, shall have all the powers of and be subject to all the restrictions upon the President. Any Vice President may sign, with the Secretary or Assistant Secretary, certificates for shares of the Corporation; and shall perform such other duties and have such authority as from time to time may be assigned to such Vice President by the President or by the board of directors.

        Section 4.5 Powers and Duties of the Secretary.     The Secretary shall (a) keep minutes of all meetings of the shareholders and of the board of directors; (b) authenticate records of the Corporation and attend to giving and serving all notices of the Corporation as provided by these bylaws or as required by law; (c) be custodian of the corporate seal (if any), the stock certificate books and such other books, records and papers as the board of directors may direct, and see that the corporate seal (if any) is affixed to all stock certificates and to all documents, the execution of which on behalf of the Corporation under its seal (if any) is duly authorized; (d) keep a stock record showing the names of all persons who are shareholders of the Corporation, their post office addresses as furnished by each such shareholder, and the number of shares of each class of stock held by them respectively, and at least ten (10) days before each shareholders' meeting, prepare a complete list of shareholders entitled to vote at such meeting arranged in alphabetical order; (e) sign with the President or a Vice President certificates for shares of the Corporation, the issuance of which shall have been duly authorized; and (f) in general, perform all duties incident to the office of Secretary and such other duties as from time to time may be assigned to the Secretary by the President or the board of directors.

        Section 4.6 Powers and Duties of the Treasurer.     The Treasurer shall (a) have custody of and be responsible for all monies and securities of the Corporation, shall keep full and accurate records and accounts in books belonging to the Corporation, showing the transactions of the Corporation, its accounts, liabilities and financial condition and shall see that all expenditures are duly authorized and are evidenced by proper receipts and vouchers; (b) deposit in the name of the Corporation in such depository or depositories as are approved by the directors, all moneys that may come into the Treasurer's hands for the Corporation's account; (c) render an account of the financial condition of the Corporation at least annually; and (d) in general, perform such duties as may from time to time be assigned to the Treasurer by the President or by the board of directors.

        Section 4.7 Assistants.     There shall be such number of Assistant Secretaries and Assistant Treasurers as the board of directors may from time to time authorize and appoint. The Assistant Secretaries and Assistant Treasurers in general, shall perform such duties as shall be assigned to them by the Secretary, or the Treasurer, respectively, or by the president or the board of directors. The board of directors shall have the power to appoint any person to act as assistant to any other officer, or to perform the duties of any other officer whenever for any reason it is impracticable for such officer to act personally, and such assistant or acting officer so appointed shall have the power to perform all the duties of the office to which he or she is so appointed to be assistant, or as to which he or she is so appointed to act, except as such power may be otherwise defined or restricted by the board of directors.

ARTICLE 5

SHARES, THEIR ISSUANCE AND TRANSFER

        Section 5.1 Consideration for Shares.     The board of directors may authorize shares to be issued for consideration consisting of any tangible or intangible property or benefit to the Corporation, including cash, promissory notes, services performed, contracts for services to be performed, or other

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securities of the Corporation. Before the Corporation issues shares, the board of directors must determine that the consideration received or to be received for shares to be issued is adequate. If the Corporation issues or authorizes the issuance of shares for promissory notes or for promises to render services in the future, the Corporation shall report in writing to the shareholders the number of shares authorized or issued and the consideration received by the Corporation with or before the notice of the next shareholders' meeting.

        Section 5.2 Certificates for Shares.     The shares of capital stock of the Corporation shall be represented by a certificate or certificates, unless and until the board of directors of the Corporation adopts a resolution permitting shares to be uncertificated. Notwithstanding the adoption of any such resolution providing for uncertificated shares, every holder of capital stock of the Corporation theretofore represented by certificates and, upon request, every holder of uncertificated shares, shall be entitled to a certificate or certificates, to be in such form as the board of directors shall prescribe, certifying the number and class of shares of the Corporation owned by such shareholder.

        Section 5.3 Execution of Certificates.     The certificates for shares of stock shall be numbered in the order in which they shall be issued and shall be signed by the President or a Vice President and the Secretary or an Assistant Secretary of the Corporation, and may be sealed with the seal (if any) of the Corporation or a facsimile thereof. The signatures of the President or Vice President and the Secretary or Assistant Secretary or other persons signing for the Corporation upon a certificate may be facsimiles if the certificate is countersigned by a transfer agent, or registered by a registrar, other than the Corporation itself or an employee of the Corporation. In case any officer or other authorized person who has signed or whose facsimile signature has been placed upon such certificate for the Corporation shall have ceased to be such officer or employee or agent before such certificate is issued, it may be issued by the Corporation with the same effect as if he or she were such officer or employee or agent at the date of its issue.

         Section 5.4 Share Record. A record shall be kept by the Secretary, or by any other officer, employee or agent designated by the board of directors, of the names and addresses of all shareholders and the number and class of shares held by each and the respective dates thereof and in case of cancellation, the respective dates of cancellation.

        Section 5.5 Cancellation.     Every certificate surrendered to the Corporation for exchange or transfer shall be cancelled, and no new certificate or certificates shall be issued in exchange for any existing certificate until such existing certificate shall have been so cancelled, except in cases provided in Section 5.8 of these bylaws.

        Section 5.6 Transfers of Stock.     Shares of capital stock of the Corporation shall be transferable in the manner prescribed by applicable law and in these bylaws. Transfers of shares of capital stock shall be made on the books of the Corporation, and in the case of certificated shares of stock, only by the person named in the certificate or by his or her attorney thereunto authorized by power of attorney duly executed and filed with the Secretary of the Corporation and upon the surrender of the certificate therefor, properly endorsed for transfer and payment of all necessary transfer taxes; or, in the case of uncertificated shares of stock, upon receipt of proper transfer instructions from the registered holder of the shares or by his or her attorney thereunto authorized by power of attorney duly executed and filed with the Secretary of the Corporation, and upon payment of all necessary transfer taxes and compliance with appropriate procedures for transferring shares in uncertificated form; provided, however, that such surrender and endorsement, compliance or payment of taxes shall not be required in any case in which the officers of the Corporation shall determine to waive such requirement. The person in whose name shares of stock stand on the books of the Corporation shall be deemed the owner thereof for all purposes as regards the Corporation; provided, however, that whenever any transfer of shares shall be made for collateral security, and not absolutely, such fact, if known to the Secretary of the Corporation, shall be so expressed in the entry of transfer. No transfer of stock shall be valid as against the

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Corporation for any purpose until it shall have been entered in the share records of the Corporation by an entry showing from and to whom transferred.

        Section 5.7 Regulations.     The board of directors may make such other rules and regulations as it may deem expedient, not inconsistent with law, concerning the issue, transfer and registration of certificates for shares of the stock of the Corporation.

        Section 5.8 Lost, Destroyed, or Mutilated Certificates.     In the event of the loss, theft or destruction of any certificate of stock, another may be issued in its place pursuant to such regulations as the board of directors may establish concerning proof of such loss, theft or destruction and concerning the giving of a satisfactory bond or bonds of indemnity.

        Section 5.9 Record Date.     The board may fix, in advance, a date as the record date for any determination of shareholders for any purpose such date in every case to be not more than seventy (70) days prior to the date on which the particular action or meeting, requiring such determination of shareholders, is to be to be taken or held. If no record date is so fixed for the determination of shareholders, the close of business on the day before the date on which the first notice of a shareholders' meeting is delivered or the date on which the resolution of the board of directors declaring a share dividend or distribution (other than in connection with a repurchase or reacquisition of shares) is adopted, as the case may be, shall be the record date for such determination of shareholders. When a determination of shareholders entitled to vote at any meeting of shareholders has been made as provided in this section, such determination shall apply to any adjournment thereof, unless the board of directors selects a new record date or unless a new record date is required by law.

ARTICLE 6

MISCELLANEOUS PROVISIONS

        Section 6.1 Facsimile Signatures.     In addition to the provisions for use of facsimile signatures elsewhere specifically authorized in these bylaws, facsimile signatures of any officer or officers of the corporation may be used whenever and as authorized by the board of directors or a committee thereof.

        Section 6.2 Corporate Seal.     The board of directors may by resolution (but shall not be required to) provide for a corporate seal which, if provided, shall be circular in form and shall bear the name of the corporation and the words "Corporate Seal" and "Iowa ". The Secretary shall be custodian of any such seal. The board of directors may also authorize a duplicate seal to be kept and used by any other officer.

        Section 6.3 Fiscal Year.     The fiscal year of the Corporation shall be determined by resolution of the board of directors.

        Section 6.4 Voting of Stocks Owned by the Corporation.     In the absence of a resolution of the board of directors to the contrary, the President of the Corporation or any Vice President acting within the scope of his or her authority as provided in Section 4.4 of these bylaws, are authorized and empowered on behalf of the Corporation to attend, vote, grant discretionary proxies to be used at any meeting of shareholders of any corporation in which this Corporation holds or owns shares of stock, and in that connection, on behalf of this Corporation, to execute a waiver of notice of any such meeting. The board of directors shall have authority to designate any officer or person as a proxy or attorney-in-fact to vote shares of stock in any other corporation in which this Corporation may own or hold shares of stock.

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        (1)   Articles or Restated Articles of Incorporation and all amendments currently in effect;

        (2)   Bylaws or Restated Bylaws and all amendments currently in effect;

        (3)   Resolutions adopted by the board of directors creating one or more classes or series of shares and fixing their relative rights, preferences and limitations, if shares issued pursuant to those resolutions are outstanding;

        (4)   Minutes of all shareholders' meetings and records of all action taken by shareholders without a meeting, for the past three years;

        (5)   All written communications to shareholders generally within the past three years, including the financial statement furnished for the past three years;

        (6)   A list of the names and business addresses of the Corporation's current directors and officers; and

        (7)   The Corporation's most recent annual report delivered to the Iowa Secretary of State.

ARTICLE 7

INDEMNIFICATION OF DIRECTORS

        Section 7.1 Mandatory Indemnity.     Each individual who is or was a director of the Corporation (and the heirs, executors, personal representatives or administrators of such individual) who was or is made a party to, or is involved in any threatened, pending or completed action, suit or proceeding, whether civil, criminal, administrative or investigative, by reason of the fact that such person is or was a director of the Corporation or is or was serving at the request of the Corporation as a director, officer, partner, trustee, employee or agent of another corporation, partnership, joint venture, trust, employee benefit plan or other enterprise ("Indemnitee"), shall be indemnified and held harmless by the Corporation to the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, as the same exists or may hereafter be amended. In addition to the indemnification conferred in this Article, the Indemnitee and any officer

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of the Corporation shall also be entitled to have paid directly by the Corporation the expenses reasonably incurred in defending any such proceeding against such Indemnitee, or any similar type of proceeding against such officer, in advance of its final disposition, to the fullest extent authorized by applicable law, as the same exists or may hereafter be amended. The right to indemnification conferred in this Article shall be a contract right.

        Section 7.2 Non-Exclusivity of Rights.     The rights to indemnification conferred in this Article shall not be exclusive of any other right which any person may have or hereafter acquire under any statute, the Corporation's Articles of Incorporation or any agreement, vote of stockholders or disinterested directors or otherwise.

ARTICLE 8

AMENDMENTS TO BYLAWS

        These bylaws may be amended or repealed by the board of directors or by the shareholders; provided, however, that the shareholders may from time to time specify particular provisions of the bylaws which shall not be amended or repealed by the board of directors.

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Exhibit 5.1

January 15, 2008

American Equity Investment Life Holding Company
5000 Westown Parkway, Suite 440
West Des Moines, Iowa 50266

Ladies and Gentlemen:

        I am the Chief Financial Officer and General Counsel for American Equity Investment Life Holding Company, an Iowa corporation (the "Company"), and have acted as counsel to the Company in connection with the preparation and filing of a registration statement on Form S-3 (the "Registration Statement") under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended (the "Act"), to be filed on the date hereof by the Company with the Securities and Exchange Commission (the "Commission") for the registration of 2,500,000 shares (the "Shares") of the Company's common stock, par value $1.00 per share (the "Common Stock"), issuable upon the exercise of up to 2,500,000 stock options (each, an "Option," and collectively, the "Options") to be granted under the Company's Independent Insurance Agent Stock Option Plan (the "Plan") and the issuance of 2,500,000 Options under the Plan.

        This opinion is being furnished in accordance with the requirements of Item 601(b)(5) of Regulation S-K under the Act.

        In rendering the opinions set forth herein, I have examined originals or copies, certified or otherwise identified to my satisfaction, of (i) the form of Registration Statement relating to the Shares and the Options; (ii) a specimen certificate representing the Common Stock; (iii) the Articles of Incorporation of the Company, as amended to date and currently in effect (the "Articles of Incorporation"); (iv) the Second Amended and Restated Bylaws of the Company, as amended to date and currently in effect (the "Bylaws"); (v) the Plan and (vi) certain resolutions of the Board of Directors of the Company relating to the Shares, the Options, the Plan and the filing of the Registration Statement. I have also examined originals or copies, certified or otherwise identified to my satisfaction, of such records of the Company and such agreements, certificates of public officials, certificates of officers or other representatives of the Company and others, and such other documents, certificates and records as I have deemed necessary or appropriate as a basis for the opinions set forth herein.

        In my examination, I have assumed the legal capacity of all natural persons, the genuineness of all signatures, the authenticity of all documents submitted to me as originals, the conformity to original documents of all documents submitted to me as certified, facsimile, electronic, conformed or photostatic copies and the authenticity of the originals of such latter documents. In making my examination of executed documents, I have assumed that the parties thereto, other than the Company, had the power, corporate or other, to enter into and perform all obligations thereunder and have also assumed the due authorization by all requisite action, corporate or other, and the execution and delivery by such parties of such documents and the validity and binding effect thereof on such parties.

        In addition, I have assumed that the terms of the Options will have been established so as not to, and that the execution and delivery by the Company of, and the performance of its obligations under, any Option Agreement (as defined below) to be entered into in connection with the issuance of Options, will not violate, conflict with or constitute a default under (i) any agreement or instrument to which the Company or its properties is subject, (ii) any law, rule or regulation to which the Company or its properties is subject, (iii) any judicial or regulatory order or decree of any governmental authority or (iv) any consent, approval, license, authorization or validation of, or filing, recording or registration with, any governmental authority. As to any facts material to the opinions expressed herein which I have not independently established or verified, I have relied upon statements and representations of officers and other representatives of the Company and others.


        My opinions set forth herein are limited to the laws of the state of Iowa that, in my experience, are normally applicable to transactions of the type contemplated by the Registration Statement and, to the extent that judicial or regulatory orders or decrees or consents, approvals, licenses, authorizations, validations, filings, recordings or registrations with governmental authorities are relevant, to those required under such laws (all of the foregoing being referred to as "Opined on Law"). I do not express any opinion with respect to the law of any jurisdiction other than Opined on Law or as to the effect of any such non-Opined on Law on the opinions herein stated. The Options and Shares may be issued from time to time on a delayed or continuous basis, and this opinion is limited to the laws, including the rules and regulations, as in effect on the date hereof, which laws are subject to change with possible retroactive effect.

        Based upon and subject to the foregoing, I am of the opinion that:

        I hereby consent to the filing of this opinion with the Commission as an exhibit to the Registration Statement. I also consent to the inclusion of my name under the caption "Legal Matters" in the Registration Statement. In giving this consent, I do not thereby admit that I am included in the

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category of persons whose consent is required under Section 7 of the Act or the rules and regulations of the Commission.

  Very truly yours,

 

/s/  
WENDY L. CARLSON       
Wendy L. Carlson
Chief Financial Officer and General Counsel

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Exhibit 23.1


Consent of Independent Registered Public Accounting Firm

The Board of Directors
American Equity Investment Life Holding Company:

We consent to the use of our reports dated March 12, 2007, with respect to the consolidated balance sheets of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company (the Company) as of December 31, 2006 and 2005, and the related consolidated statements of income, changes in stockholders' equity, and cash flows for the years ended December 31, 2006 and 2005, and all related financial statement schedules, management's assessment of the effectiveness of internal control over financial reporting as of December 31, 2006 and the effectiveness of internal control over financial reporting as of December 31, 2006, incorporated herein by reference and to the reference to our firm under the heading "Experts" in the prospectus. Our report dated March 12, 2007 on the consolidated financial statements also contains an explanatory paragraph that states that the Company adopted Securities and Exchange Commission Staff Accounting Bulletin No. 108, Considering the Effects of Prior Year Misstatements when Quantifying Misstatements in the Current Year Financial Statements , in 2006.

/s/ KPMG LLP

Des Moines, Iowa

January 14, 2008




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Exhibit 23.2

Consent of Independent Registered Public Accounting Firm

        We consent to the reference to our firm under the caption "Experts" in this Registration Statement (Form S-3) and related Prospectus of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company for the registration of 2,500,000 shares of common stock and to the incorporation by reference therein of our report dated March 11, 2005, except for the third and fourth paragraphs of Note 1, as to which the date is November 11, 2005, with respect to the consolidated financial statements and schedules of American Equity Investment Life Holding Company included in its Annual Report (Form 10-K) for the year ended December 31, 2004, filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission.

Des Moines, Iowa
January 14, 2008




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